23RD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME
SEPTEMBER 5, 2010
"Let your face shine upon your servant; and teach me your laws."
~Wisdom 9:13-18b~
~Philemon 9-10, 12-17~
~Luke
14:25-33
St.
Mary's Church
Main St., East Islip, N.Y.
(631) 581-4266
Rev. Donald E. Babinski
Pastor ext. 108
Rev. Janusz Mocarski
Associate Pastor ext. 110
Rev. Hugh Cannon
Associate Pastor ext. 112
Rev. Msgr. Peter Chiara
Pastor Emeritus
Sr. Patricia Tippen, IHM
Pastoral Associate ext. 134
Rectory: 581-4266 ext. 100
Rectory
Hours
Monday thru Friday - 9am to 8pm
Saturday - 9am to 4pm
Sunday - CLOSED
Parish
Social Ministry:
581-7070
9:30 - 4:30pm Mon, Tues, Wed, Fri; 1pm - 4:30pm Thurs
Director
Sr. Camille Solis, DW
ext.
128
Director of Ministry, Development and
Operations
Jack Abruzzo ext. 102
Family Faith Enrichment: 581-3304
8am - Noon & 1pm - 4pm, Monday - Friday
Director For Religious Education
Linda Crowley (Gr.
1-6)
ext. 122
Biagio M.
Arpino (Gr.
7-8)
ext. 142
Director For Baptism
MaryAnn Giannettino
ext. 120
Director For
Family Life And Youth
Theresa
Roach
ext. 124
Parish School:
581-3423
8am -
2:30pm, Monday - Friday
Principal Biagio M. Arpino ext. 142
Music &
Liturgy:
Director
Barbara
J. Grace
ext. 107
Buildings & Grounds: Frank Mangilomini ext. 101
Birthright: 277-3888
New Parishioners: All new families are welcome to the parish. They are asked to register by stopping at the Rectory during office hours or by calling our Parish Ministry & Development Office (*ext 125)..
Anointing of the Sick: 1st Saturday of each month at 8:30 A.M. Mass in the church.
Weekday Masses: Monday through Friday, 7:30am and 9:00 am, Saturday 8:30am
Sunday
Masses: Saturday 5pm in the Auditorium
Sunday: Church - 7:30am, 11am*, 5pm
Auditorium - 9:15am,10:45am, 12:15pm
(* - There is NO 11am mass during July
and August)
Holyday Masses: To Be Announced in the Church and Auditorium
Baptism: Baptisms celebrated during scheduled masses as well as Sundays at 1:30pm. Parents please call to make arrangements prior to your child's birth. Baptism is not celebrated during Lent.
Reconciliation: Saturday, 4:00pm to 4:45pm
Marriage: Please call to begin the process at least one year in advance. No dates for marriage will be set over the phone. Either the bride or groom must be a member of St. Mary's.
8:30 a.m. Louis Soto
5:00 p.m. Deceased Members of Fr. Hugh
The Del Genio Family
7:30 a.m. Kenneth Carr Fr. Pete
9:15 a.m. Norman Katz Fr. Don
10:45 a.m. All Parishioners Fr. Hugh
12:15 p.m. James P. Geraghty Fr. Don
5:00 p.m. Mary Eisele Fr. Louis
John Rocchio
Carmine Lombardo
MONDAY 09/06
7:30 a.m. Marie M. Cuomo
9:00 a.m. Frank and Rose Bagala
7:30 a.m. Denise Montaruli
9:00 a.m. Mary and Daniel Malanca
9:00 a.m. Al Catone
7:30 a.m. Teresa Tremblay
9:00 a.m. Mary Kriska
8:30 a.m. James Cody
11:30 a.m. 9-11 Remembrance Mass Fr. Don
5:00 p.m. Nicholas Chiofalo Fr. Janusz
7:30 a.m. Pasqualena Croce Fr. Louis
9:15 a.m. Ann Nemecek Fr. Hugh
10:45 a.m. Carmella Jocks Fr. Pete
11:00 a.m. Pasquale Urraro Fr. Don
Rosanne Urraro
Mr. & Mrs. E. Dahl and J. Dahl, Jr.
Amelia Frances Serra
Albert Eastwood
Joseph Slavinsky
12:15 p.m. All Parishioners Fr. Hugh
5:00 p.m. William Hutnick Fr. Janusz
THE SACRAMENT OF RECONCILIATION (PENANCE)
Penance on Wednesday, Sept. 8th at 8-8:45 a.m. Fr. Louis
Penance on Saturday, Sept. 11th at 4-4:45 p.m. Fr. Hugh
SCRIPTURE READINGS FOR THE WEEK
Monday: 1 Corinthians 5:1-8; Luke 6:6-11
Tuesday: 1 Corinthians 6:1-11; Luke 6:12-19
Wednesday: Micah 6:1-4a; Matthew 1:1-16, 18-23
Thursday: 1 Corinthians 8:1b-7, 11-13; Luke 6:27-28
Friday: 1 Corinthians 9:16-19, 22b-27; Luke 6:39-42
Saturday: 1 Corinthians 10:14-22; Luke 6:43-49
Sunday: Exodus 32:7-11, 13-14;1 Timothy 1:12-17
Luke 15:1-32
COMMUNITY LIFE
St Mary Parish Offices will be closed on Monday, September 6th in observance of the Labor Day holiday. A Safe & Happy Labor Day!
The next LITURGICAL MINISTER meeting is Tuesday, September 21st at 9:45am in Sacred Heart Hall or 7:30pm in the Auditorium.
The PASTORAL COUNCIL will meet on Saturday, September 18th at 9:30am in the Joseph Room.
The FINANCE COUNCIL will meet on Monday, September 13th at 7:00 PM.
St. Mary Parish welcomes Seminarian Brandon O’Brien on Tuesday, September 7th,who will be completing his Pastoral Year at St. Mary. Brandon is originally from Sacred Heart Parish in North Merrick and will be ordained a Deacon in two years.
SAVE
THE DATE!
You are invited to the St. Mary “HARVEST
GALA” on Friday, October 22nd from 7:30pm to 11pm at
Captain Bill’s Restaurant in Bay Shore. Join us for an exciting evening of
Dinner, Cocktails, Music, Raffles and more! Tickets are $70 per person.
Funds raised will support our Parish Ministries.
ST. MARY MEN’S MINISTRY: All men 18 years of age and older are invited to attend our next gathering on Tuesday, September 14th. We will meet in the Church promptly at 7:30pm for Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. Immediately following, we will meet in Sacred Heart Hall to discuss the questions of “Should the Catholic Church be involved in politics?” Hope you accept the invitation.
ST. MARY ROSARY SOCIETY ~ Please join us for our Welcome Back Meeting on Wednesday, September 15th at 9:30am in the St. Joseph Room. All are welcome!
YOUTH GROUP FOR HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS ~ If you are a high school student and are interested in the Youth Ministry at St. Mary Parish, please contact Fr. Janusz at fr.janusz@yahoo.com or call the Rectory at 631-581-4266, x110. We are planning some meetings & trips for the summertime. These summer meetings & events are a good opportunity to spend time creatively and also meet wonderful people who want to share their faith in Jesus with others.
THE SHAWL MINISTRY will meet on September 9th & 23rd from 1pm to 3pm in the Joseph Room. Each shawl, baby hat, lap throw or blanket is made with special prayers before given to those in need of comfort during an illness, recovery or bereavement to remind them that they are part of a parish community and that they will be remembered in prayer. To learn more about this ministry, please call Collette at 277-0759.
CAREGIVER SUPPORT SERIES ~ St. Mary Parish is offering a 4-week workshop series designed to provide education and support to the Caregivers of our Community on Saturday mornings from 10am to 11:30am in Sacred Heart Hall! Presenters: Marilyn Gormley, Esq. and Loretta M. Avallone, LCSW.
The weekly topics include:
September 18th Home Care Programs
September 25th Residential Care Options
October 2nd Stress Management: Preventing Caregiver Burnout
October 16th Estate Planning Tools
For more information, please call Sister Patty Tippen at 581-4266, x134.
ST. MARY SCHOOL NEWS
SCHOOL BELLS RING !
St. Mary School Opens on Tuesday, September 7th ~ Grades 1-8
Wednesday, September 8th ~ Kindergarten Classes Begin
Monday, September 13th ~ Nursery and Pre-K Classes Begin
Registrations still being accepted for all grades. Please contact the School Office at 631-581-3423.
SCRIP is a gift card program that raises funds for our parish school. You may purchase these gift cards before and after the 9:15am, 10:45am, and 12:15pm Masses on Sunday. SCRIP is also available after the 7:30am Mass on Sunday. SCRIP may also be purchased at St. Mary School on Wednesdays from 8am – 11am. We have many stores and restaurants that participate in this program. Thank you for your support!
HOST FAMILIES FOR KOREAN CHILDREN NEEDED ~ Please join us in opening your home!
We are accepting applications for families to host Korean children in January and/or February or for a full year who will be attending St. Mary School. You can earn tuition credit for next year or cash by hosting one or more of these children. If you are interested, please contact Mrs. Jimenez at 631-581-3423, x138. It has been a great experience for many over the past 4 years. Come and join us.
CATHOLIC HIGH SCHOOL ENTRANCE EXAMINATION PREP COURSE: October 25-27 & 29, 2010
Please contact Mrs. Gallagher at 581-3423 for more information.
St. Anne’s Knights of Columbus Columbiettes (96 Second Ave, Brentwood) will be having their annual GARAGE SALE~FLEA MARKET on Saturday, September 18th. Setup begins at 8am and sale is from 9am-4pm. If you would like to rent a space or donate new or used items, please contact Jeanne Dorrian at 631-273-4863. Cost for vendors’ spaces is $25.
VENDORS NEEDED! St. Mark’s Episcopal Church will be holding a CRAFT FAIR on Saturday, October 9th on the Church Grounds (754 Montauk Hwy, Islip) Rain or Shine. To reserve your 12x12 space or for additional info, please call 631-277-4630.
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Dear Friends,
This Saturday marks the 9th anniversary of 9/11. The events of that tragic day are forever embedded in our minds. They also have broken forever the hearts of those who lost loved ones that fateful day and whose lives have been irrevocably changed.
Those who committed the heinous crimes of that day died along with the thousands of innocent people they murdered. Unfortunately, the people responsible for planning those crimes against humanity remain fugitives. As the war in Afghanistan rages on, Bin Laden has not been caught and the cells of Al Qaida still operate.
Because the wounds of 9/11 are so deep and still fresh, the current conroversy over the building of a mosque and an Islamic Center near the site of where the World Trade Towers once stood tall has been most unsettling for some of the people who have strong ties to Ground Zero. This controversy is quite complex. There are issues on both sides, pro and con.
The group of Moslems whose plan it is to build the mosque and cultural center are called “The Cordoba Initiative.” It is named after the Spanish city of Cordoba which was the center of the Muslim conquest which lasted about three centuries. Although this group has since changed the name of the proposed site near Ground Zero to Park 51, the question of funding remains unchanged.
Many believe that the major funding for the future mosque and cultural center is coming from sources outside our country. This is perfectly legal. What is questionable is if all these sources are themselves legal. Is it possible that some of this funding is linked to members of Al Qaida for example, or to some other militant and subversive group or individual?
The other major issue tangled in this controversy has to do with our Constitution. Religious freedom is an important right guaranteed in the U.S. Constitution. Moreover, it is fundamentally attached to our status as human beings. With the right of religious freedom comes the right and need to have a place to exercise one’s religious freedom. As a free society, our government has the obligation to facilitiate space where places of worship can be constructed so long as they do not jeopardize the safety of or infringe upon the rights of the people around them.
Like Jews and Catholics, devout Moslems take their religion seriously. Moslems are called to prayer five times a day. It is crucial therefore that they have a mosque near the places they work so they can observe and fulfill their religious duty. This is why the mosque is as emotional for the Moslems as it is for those who have strong ties to what happened at Ground Zero.
Just recently Archbishop Timothy Dolan of New York offered to mediate this issue for both sides, as did N.Y. State Governor David Paterson. It would seem, however, that neither party is interested in compromising, at least for the time being. Archbishop Dolan has suggested that another site be made available. He cited the case of the Polish Carmelite Sisters who wished to establish a convent on the grounds of Auschwitz, the death camp.
Polish nuns intended to use the proposed convent to pray for the millions of Jews and Christians who were innocently killed at Auschwitz. Many Jews opposed the location chosen for the convent, citing the fact that the Jews who died there have made it holy ground which should not be disturbed or desecrated. Realizing the issue had become one of insensitivity to the Jewish people, Pope John Paul II intervened. Consequently, the Carmelite convent was relocated and prayers for reparation as intended continue at another site to this day.
The same underlying issue that provoked the controversy at the death camp is what prevails at Ground Zero. Trying to be sensitive to the needs of the Islamic community as well as to the needs of those who remember the events of 9/11 is not easy. This must be done with prayer and mutual respect and understanding.
But there is something more inherent to the controversy which must be addressed and that is the question of bias and discrimination. To hold an entire group or nation responsible for the sinful actions of some of its militant members is morally reprehensible.
I became acutely aware of this while watching a recent TV program on the anniversary of the dropping of the hydrogen bomb on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. To continue to hold all Japanese people responsible for the heinous crimes of some of its members is wrong. The same can and should be said about 9/11. Regardless of where the mosque is placed, there is no place for religious bias, or for that matter any type of discrimination.
I hope and pray the controversy of the Islamic mosque is resolved peacefully and amiably. Meanwhile, you and I can do our part to root out bigotry. It is simply un-American and un-Christian.
God bless you,
Fr. Don
Fr. Hugh will hold a 5-week scripture course on the “GOSPEL OF MATTHEW” on Tuesday evenings, September 21st , September 28th, October 5th, October 12th, and October 19th from 7:30pm to 9pm in the Rectory Chapel. Please read Chapters 1, 2, 3 & 4 for the first class. If you plan to attend, please call Teresa Van Buren at 581-4266, x105.
Dear Parishioners,
As you may have noticed, a group of new Altar Servers, who have been trained during the last couple of months, began their ministry at our Sunday Masses. Those who have been altar servers before were re-trained according to new rules and needs, as we would like to introduce more solemnity and orderliness to Sunday Mass. Our most recent training involved how to use processional candles and incense. We are in the process of updating our worn out altar server equipment and apparel: New Albs (white robes the altar servers wear during Mass) and two sets of processional candlesticks/torches for the Church & Auditorium. The Altar Server Albs range from $50 to $70 each and we need 30 albs. The candlesticks, however, are more expensive ranging from $500 to $1000 a pair. Please consider donating an Alb or candlestick in honor of your loved ones. A commemorative plaque will be attached to each item. Thank you for your generosity. Please see the Rectory Receptionist during office hours. Thank you, and God Bless. Fr. Janusz Mocarski
P
RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults) is for those individuals that have either never been baptized or were baptized in a different Faith Tradition and desire to celebrate Eucharist and Confirmation in the Roman Catholic faith If you are interested in learning more about our Tradition of Faith and the RCIA process, please call 581-4266, x122.
PRE-CANA:
Proper marriage preparation is a priority in the Church. As a sign that
the whole parish is involved in this preparation, more than the priests of the
parish are involved. There are four areas where interested parishioners
may minister: 1). The initial meeting with the engaged couples.
2). Helping the couples with FOCCUS. This tool is strongly recommended
by the Bishops of the US, and helps the couple look at the different areas of
marriage that are important for discussion before entering marriage. 3).
The Pre-Cana In-Home Sessions facilitated by married couples. (The first
and last meetings are held on parish grounds.) 4). Leading the
rehearsals before the marriage.
COMMUNION
TO THE HOMEBOUND: If
you or someone you know would like a parishioner to bring Holy Communion to
you or a loved one, please call the Rectory Receptionist at 581-4266, x100.
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ST. MARY’S MISSION STATEMENT
“A vision of Church as envisioned by the Second Vatican Council, the Gospel message proclaimed by the Lord, Jesus Christ, the solemn obligation to hear the cry of all those in need.”
With these as
our FOUNDATIONAL STONES, the
ST. MARY’S MISSION STATEMENT is:
“CENTERED IN THE WORD OF GOD AND THE GIFT OF JESUS IN OUR MIDST, THE MISSION OF ST. MARY’S PARISH FAMILY IS TO BE A WELCOMING COMMUNITY WHICH PROCLAIMS THROUGH WORD AND ACTION THE DIGNITY OF EVERY PERSON.”
Please remember to silence your cell phone or pager before Mass. Thank you for your consideration & cooperation!
HOLY HOUR: Please join us as we pray for priests every third Monday of the month in the Church from 12noon to 1pm.
“9-11 Remembrance Mass” will be held on Saturday, September 11th at 11:30am in the Church. Please join us as we offer our prayers for those who perished, for their families & loved ones, and for all the responders who face health issues today. Let us pray for peace in the world.
TAIZE: Trying to get back into a normal rhythm after the hectic pace of this summer season? Have the daily distractions been interrupting your prayer time? Need some quiet time to focus on prayer? Possibly TAIZE is an answer for you. TAIZE prayer takes about 40 minutes and includes contemplation, musical chant/prayer, scripture reading, and veneration of the cross. The environment is quiet, peaceful and conducive to prayerful reflection. Please consider joining us for the next TAIZE prayer on Tuesday, September 28th at 7:30pm in the CHURCH. (Due to Fr. Hugh’s Scripture course, we have been moved from the Chapel this month).
CHILDREN’S CHOIR
Welcome back! Our first rehearsal will be on September 14th from 6-7pm in the Auditorium. We will be singing at the 9:15am Mass on Sunday, September 26th. New members are needed; please contact the Music Ministry Office for more info or email Lynne Cook at stmaryschildrenschoir@yahoo.com.
Become an USHER . . . We are in need of men and women to become ushers at the various Masses. For more information, please call Barbara Grace at 581-4266, x107.
A VOCATION AS A DEACON ~ An Afternoon of Discernment will be conducted at the Seminary of the Immaculate Conception, Huntington, NY on Sunday, September 12th from 1pm to 4pm for men, and their spouses, who believe God might be calling them to the diaconate. For more information or to register, please contact the Office of Deacon Formation at 631-424-8360 or deacons@drvc.org.
CENTERING
PRAYER 
“Centering Yourself in Prayer”~Take some time from your busy, hectic day/week! Spend some quiet, quality time with God! “When two or more are gathered in my name. . .” Our next gathering is Monday, September 20th at 10am in the Rectory Chapel for approximately 30 minutes; come, sit and pray in a small circle and in a non-threatening, non-intimidating manner. Have your own inner, reflective, meditative time with God. For more info, call Sister Patty at 581-4266, x134 or visit www.contemplativeoutreach.org.
Please
remember that the Mass Intention for the fourth Sunday of each month at
the 5pm Mass on Sunday will be ”PEACE IN THE WORLD”. On the
first Monday of each month, we will celebrate Eucharistic Devotion from
5pm –8:30pm in the Blessed Sacrament Chapel in the Church.
Just a Reminder: If a child has not as yet received his or her First Eucharist and walks up in the communion procession each week and would like to receive a Blessing, please have the child cross his or her hands across their heart. This gesture indicates to the Priest or Extraordinary Minister that the child standing before him or her would like to receive a Blessing.
CIRCLE
OF SCRIPTURE
We will resume our Tuesday and Thursday gatherings after Labor Day, September 7th & September 9th at 8:30am in the Joseph Room. Jesus said to the Jews who believed in him, “If you remain in my word, you will truly be my disciples, and you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.” ~John 8:31-32.
“If you make my word your home you will indeed be my disciples; you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.” ~ John 8:31-32
First Banns
Raymond Hart and Shannon O’Connor
Shivan Durbal and Nicole Marra
Third Banns
Robert Kopolovicz and Priscilla Jacobs
The Sick
Robert Fenn, Gwen Finch, Pearl Frere, Lissette Garcia, Marie Henry, Millie Horton, Fern Hunter,
Karen Marzovilla, Eileen McGloin Mullen, the Sardinha Family, Bernier St. Jean, Myoshi Vital,
Agnes Willis and Vincent Seymour Wilson.
The Deceased
Queen of All Saints
William Cray, Ms. Olivia Ellis, Marjorie Evans, Martin Hanley and Bernard Riccardelli.
Week of September 5th
A Devotional Wall Candle has been donated by Douglas & Josephine MacDonald in honor of St. Jude.
Friends of the Seminary Annual Communion Breakfast will be held on September 26th at the Seminary of the Immaculate Conception (440 West Neck Rd., Huntington). Registration at 10:45am, Mass at 11:30am followed by Brunch in the Refectory. Donation~$25. Please reserve by September 18th at 631-423-0483, x102 or bmalone@icseminary.edu.
The ANOINTING OF THE SICK will be celebrated on Saturday, October 2, 2010 at the 8:30am Mass in the Church. All are most welcome ~ Please come and pray with us!
Opportunity for Spiritual Direction: A parishioner has recently completed studies and certification requirements at St. Ignatius Retreat Center program for Spiritual Directors. If you are seeking a spiritual director, this may be a good contact. Please call Sister Patty at 481-4266 x134 for additional information.
PARISH SOCIAL MINISTRIES
Parish Outreach Office
Hours
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 9:30-4:30;
Thursday 1:00-4:30
A Prayer for All Workers
(Edie Rasell)
Loving, Working God,
On this Labor Sunday we ask your special blessing on all people who labor, either for pay or as volunteers, in jobs or at school, in the workplace or at home, in the U.S. and around the world.
We especially pray for your blessings on workers who do not have jobs and for those whose inadequate pay does not allow them to live the full life you intend for each of us.
Creator God, help us to build a new world in the midst of the old.
A world where all workers are valued.
A world where those who clean houses are also able to buy houses to live in.
A world where those who grow food can also afford to eat their fill.
We pray for the coming of a world where all workers everywhere share in the abundance that you have given us.
We ask these things knowing that you give us the courage and strength to live out our faith in the workplace and the marketplace, as well as in the sanctuary.
Amen.
SCHOOL SUPPLIES ~ School will soon be open. Families struggle to provide their children with the wide variety of items that teachers request. Perhaps you can purchase a Target or Staples gift card to donate to our Parish Social Ministry to alleviate this burden? We are grateful for your kind generosity.
PARISH SOCIAL MINISTRY NEEDS YOU! There are some parishioners who call us on occasion because they need rides to local stores or doctors, or might also request help with minor home repairs. If you would like to be a part of either ministry, please call 581-7070, x128 for further information.
FOOD PANTRY ~ The people of St. Mary Parish are always so generous when we ask for donations to our pantry. This week we can use: COFFEE, PASTA, PEANUT BUTTER, JELLY, CANNED CHICKEN, COOKIE SNACKS,and HOUSEHOLD CLEANERS.
RAINBOWS
St. Mary Parish offers a peer support group for children (ages 5-13, grades K-8) and adults who are going through a separation and divorce within their families. The RAINBOWS program meets for two 8-week sessions, in the fall and the spring. RAINBOWS will begin on Tuesday, October 12th from 6:30pm to 7:30pm. A support group is also available for parents of the children in the RAINBOWS program and you can register for the Parents’ Support Group when you register your child/children. For information, or a registration interview appointment, please call the Parish Social Ministry Office at 581-7070, x129. Nominal program fee. No walk-ins accepted and space is limited.
Our
Thrift Shop is once again back to regular hours ~ from 10m to 4pm everyday
except Sunday. Come in to browse around and look for great bargains.
Remember that you can get St. Mary School uniforms for free! Perhaps you
would consider volunteering for one of the 3-hour shifts per week? Call Rosanne
at 581-4266, x129.
FOOD
DELIVERY VOLUNTEERS NEEDED ~ AS LITTLE AS ONE HOUR PER YEAR:
As you can imagine, the need for
food in this current economic climate has dramatically increased. Our
parish is able to help by providing food to many of our neighbors.
Volunteers are being solicited for seasonal food deliveries (about one hour of
your time) for Easter, Thanksgiving and Christmas. Also, we are in
need of additional volunteers who would be able to deliver food baskets to those
who call the Outreach Office but cannot pick up the food. This would
require a commitment of -at the most- a few days per month. If you
are motivated to help in any way, please contact Parish Social Ministry at
581-4266, x128. Thank you in advance for your consideration
VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES:
TRANSPORTATION
~ The Parish Social Ministry is in need of people who would be able to provide
rides to parishioners to supermarkets, doctors’ appointments, and Sunday
MORE VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES: Parish Social Ministry offers a unique opportunity to be a part of the numerous ministries serving others. We can give you information on being a part of the Core or Reception Team in the Outreach Office, Thrift Shop, Rainbows or Bread of Life Ministry to name just a few. Please call 581-4266, x128. You can make a difference!
MINISTRY OF REASSURANCE ~ St. Mary’s Parish Social Ministry offers the Ministry of Reassurance to anyone who is homebound or in a nursing home. If you, or someone you know, would like a friendly phone call or note, please call Nora at 581-4266, x133. Feel free to leave a message and she will return your call. If you would be interested in volunteering your time in this ministry, please call 581-4266, x129.
Food Pantry News ~ Save the Date!
Parish Outreach is holding our first Fun-d Raiser!
“Rock Out Hunger Concert”
Boulton Center, Bay Shore, NY
Sunday, November 14th from 6-9pm
All proceeds will benefit our Food Pantry. Tickets are $25 and will be sold through the
Boulton Center online beginning September 15th.
For information about buying an ad for our journal, please call 581-7070, x129.
Help us “Rock Out Hunger!”
If you or someone you know is in need of assistance, please contact the Outreach Office of Parish Social Ministry at 581-4266, ext. 128. All contacts will be confidential.
PRAYER/SUPPORT GROUPS:
The next meeting for
Catholic Gays/Lesbians and their Parents will be held on the third Tuesday
of each month at 7:30pm. For further information, please call Al and
Rita Mazza at 631-650-7016.
If you are in any process of Divorce and Separation and would like information regarding the support and prayer group, please contact Parish Social Ministry at 581-4266 ext. 128. All calls confidential.
BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT GROUP: St. Mary Parish in East Islip is offering a free 8-week support group for adults who are struggling to cope with the death of a loved one. Registration is required for this group, which begins on Wednesday, September 8th from 7pm to 9pm. For information and/or registration, please call the Rectory Receptionist at 631-581-4266, x100. In order to participate in this group, the death must have occurred prior to June 8, 2010.
Please
remember in your prayer those members of St. Mary’s Parish who serve in the
Military and have asked for our prayers. If you have a relative or friend
that you would like to add to our Prayer List, please call Teresa Van Buren at
581-4266 (x105).
Let us remember in our prayer:
James Misner, Nick Cerbone, Michael Skelly, Travis Trelsa, Kyle Kalman, Colin Dornemann, Anthony Adam Wilson,john Gregory Finn, Adam Ferrone, Robert Necci, Jr., Corporal Joseph Hart, William L’Hommedieu, Michael Paradiso, Robert Domozych, Private Donald Scott, Andrew Citarella, Jr., Logan Phillips, Paul Minihan, Colleen Stephens-Minihan, Sgt. Timothy Chaplin, Lance Corporal Marine Matthew Gervais, Keith & Teague Liming, Ray Callahan, Christopher Hill, Ray Sigman, Evan Kennedy, Michael Pare, Petty Officer 2nd Class Perry Bellino, Charles Flood III, Ian Lynch,Petty Officer Mike Bottego, Master Chief Scott McKendrick, Commander Mick Mortimer, Corporal Joseph Young, PFC Eric Mitchell, PFC Christopher Mazza, and Patrick Donohue.
RESPECT LIFE
Another school year begins. How many desks are empty due to the deaths of children when they were unborn babies? Who can comprehend the talents and gifts lost due to more than 52 million abortions since 1973? PRAY that we may realize that God’s plans not our plans should guide our decisions in life and death matters like abortion and euthanasia.
VOLUNTEERS ARE NEEDED ~ Counselors, Social Work Professionals, Case Managers, & Family Development Workers!
You can help a Long Island neighbor out of poverty at the Make Work Pay Pilot Project in Wyandanch. For more info, please call 631-499-6725 or email rkmicahli@gmail.com. LI Jobs with Justice has partnered with the Gerald Ryan Outreach Center at Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal Church and the Town of Babylon Wyandanch Community Resource Center to provide counseling and case management services to unemployed and underemployed clients who seek food, clothing and other emergency services at the Ryan Outreach Center.
RETROUVAILLE: You can save your marriage now! A Retrouvaille weekend is a deeply personal and private experience that can help a couple reconnect and go on to lead a happy and fulfilling life together. For more information about the upcoming Retrouvaille weekend that begins on Friday, September 10th at the Montfort Retreat House in Bay Shore, please call 1-800-470-2230 and you will be connected (confidentally) to an experienced couple from Long Island/Metro Retrouvaille who can help.
St. Anne’s Knights of Columbus Columbiettes will hold their annual GARAGE SALE/FLEA MARKET on Saturday, September 18th. Setup begins at 8am and the sale is from 9am to 4pm. If you would like to rent a space or donate new or used items, please contact Jeanne Dorrian at 631-273-4863.
GENNESARET RETREAT ~ A retreat especially designed for persons who live with a serious illness is planned on September 24th, 25th & 26th at Montfort Spirituality Center in Bay Shore, NY. This retreat offers a respite, a quiet time, an oasis to enable one to continue the journey. The retreat focuses on God’s love, His forgiveness, and His faithfulness. To register or receive more information about this weekend, please call Colette Fanelli at 631-665-7052.
St. Patrick Parish Social Ministry (Bay Shore) presents “Medicare, Know Your A, B, C & D’s” on Wednesday, September 29th from 10am to 12 Noon in Msgr. Purick Hall (Rooms 1 & 2). This will help you understand the basics of Medicare, how to choose a plan suitable for your needs, and Healthcare Reform. Reservations required: Please call 631-665-4911, x133.
Ministry & Development
Thank you for sharing your Treasure
Last Week’s Offering $16,987
A Will is your final statement of your Christian stewardship. When planning your bequests and memorials, prayerfully consider including our parish community of St. Mary’s.
"Sunday Reflection"
“Take rest. . .
A field that has rested gives a bountiful crop.”
~ Ovid ~
FAMILY FAITH ENRICHMENT ~ ST. MARY PARISH NEEDS YOU!
What is a catechist? The word catechist comes from a Greek word that means to echo. A catechist “echoes” the basics of our faith to the children in his/her class.
A catechist isn’t a master theologian and doesn’t need a degree. Jesus chose regular everyday people to be his apostles and disciples – people just like you and I. He sent them forth to bring his Good News to the whole world. A catechist is someone who wants to bring that Good News to the children of St. Mary.
Who is a catechist? You can be. Just call Linda Crowley at 581-3304, x122, to take the first step.
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Learn how to “Be an Amazing Catechist!” Special presentation on Thursday, September 23rd at 7pm in Sacred Heart Hall. Our presenter is Lisa Mladanich, seasoned catechist, President of Catholic Writers of Long Island and a published author. All Catechists, Scripture Sharers, and anyone considering being a catechist are invited to attend. It will be the kick-off meeting for this catechetical year. Please RSVP to the Family Faith Enrichment Office at 581-3304, x121.
SAMARITAN’S PURSE OPERATION CHRISTMAS CHILD ~ This wonderful project takes an ordinary shoebox and turns it into a treasure chest for children in need. It’s not too early to start thinking about collecting shoeboxes and all the goodies that go inside of them. This time of the year is a great time to pick up school supplies at great prices, (something as simple as having paper and a pen allows a child to attend school in many countries). Other great items are available in the Summer Clearance Section, like flip flops, balls, small toys, beach toys, t-shirts, flashlights, sneakers, baseball caps. Perhaps you just came back from vacation and you have some small bar soaps, combs or any other toiletry items that are non-liquid, they will make great box stuffers. Whatever you can contribute will be put to good use. Items can be dropped off at the Rectory or the Family Faith Enrichment Office. If you have any questions, please call MaryAnn Giannettino at 581-3304, x120.
SELF ESTEEM IN RELATIONSHIPS sponsored by Women’s Ministry at Ascension Lutheran Church (Deer Park) ~ Women in the surrounding communities are invited to attend a peer-support group entitled, “Self Esteem in Relationships.” This FREE & CONFIDENTIAL program will begin September 9th and continues for eight weeks. Pre-registration is a must! For information, please call Vicki or Helen at 631-667-4188, weekdays between 9:30am and 2pm.
Attention all Parishioners of St. Mary & St. Mary School Families!
Effective immediately, St. Mary’s has a new phone system. Please note the new separate telephone numbers:
St. Mary’s Parish: 631-581-4266
St. Mary School: 631-581-3423
Parish Social Ministry: 631-581-7070
Family Faith Enrichment: 631-581-3304
(Please note that the FFE Office also includes the following ministries:
FFE (x122), Baptism (x120), Family Life & Youth (x124).
DEVOTIONAL
WALL CANDLES ~ Located in the Blessed Sacrament Chapel in the Church
Weekly Wall Candle Devotions for any occasion ~ to honor someone’s Birthday, Special Anniversary, Sacrament Celebration, Memorial, etc. Name of Honoree will appear in the bulletin and underneath the candle. Minimum of 2 weeks prior to the desired week must be given to meet the bulletin printing deadline. Please see the Rectory Receptionist during office hours to arrange. Offering is $25 per week.
BREAD
& WINE OFFERING ~ One Offering for each Sunday Mass
Dedicate a Bread & Wine Offering for a loved one to celebrate any occasion. Honoree’s name will appear in the bulletin. Minimum of 2 weeks prior to the desired Sunday must be given to meet bulletin printing deadline. Please see the Rectory Receptionist during office hours to arrange. Offering is $25 per Mass.
Stewardship Prayer
Generous God,
I give thanks to you for the gifts you have given me ~ my life, my family, my friends ~ time, talents, and material possessions. All that I have comes from you. Help me to remember this and rejoice in your goodness.
Walk with me, my God. Help me, on my spiritual journey, so that I may constantly renew my relationship with you and all the good people in our parish and throughout Long Island.
Renew in me your Spirit. Give me the strength and courage to become a better follower of Jesus, to be a disciple. Help me hear the call to “Come, Follow Me.”
I give glory to you, my God as I make
Stewardship a way of life.
Amen.
REMEMBER OUR PARISH
Please consider continuing your lifelong stewardship by leaving a bequest to St. Mary’s. A gift to us in your will or trust affirms your everlasting commitment to the Parish’s life and works. You can instruct your attorney to use this wording:
I hereby give, devise and bequeath to St. Mary’s Church, with offices at 20 Harrison Avenue, East Islip, NY, the sum of $_____ to be used for its most urgent needs.
As an alternative, you can make a gift of what remains in your estate or living trust after all other bequests and expenses have been paid:
I hereby give, devise and bequeath to St. Mary’s Church, with offices at 20 Harrison Avenue, East Islip, NY, all the rest, residue and remainder of my estate (trust) to be used for its most urgent needs.
For more information about remembering the Parish in your will or living trust, or to request a brochure, please contact Barbara Kilarijian, Director of Marketing and Development at the Diocese of Rockville Centre at 516-379-5210, x229.
St. Mary’s Automated Sacrificial Giving
St. Mary’s is pleased to offer Electronic Funds Transfer (EFT) as a convenient way for you to deliver your regular sacrificial gift to our parish. Here’s why you may want to consider this option:
Convenience ~ Your gift is automatically received once a month.
Consistency and Planning ~ Even when you are away, your gift provides consistent support of our parish and ministries. Your participation enhances our budget planning.
Confidentiality and Security ~ EFT utilizes the Automated Clearing House (ACH), the same network used for Direct Deposit and Electronic Bill Payment. In addition, paperless transfer prevents possibility of loss or theft.
Community ~ We will continue to send you envelopes. If you choose, mark your weekly envelope with the letters “EFT” and place it in the collection basket. This will allow you to participate in the offertory, and will assure us that your gift is not missing from the envelope. Also included in this mailing are specialty envelopes not part of this program.
If you are interested in this option, please complete and submit the form below. For further information, contact the Office of Ministry & Development at 581-4266, x125.
AUTOMATED GIVING AUTHORIZATION FORM
I, ____________________________________, authorize St. Mary’s R.C. Church, East Islip, New York, to initiate monthly withdrawals from my (choose one): ( ) Checking, ( ) Statement Savings, or ( ) Money Market account.
To convert a weekly gift to a monthly one, multiply dollar amount by 4 ⅓.
My monthly sacrificial gift is $____________. I would like my gift to be deducted from my account on the (choose one):
( ) 1st of each month, or ( ) 15th of each month.
Note: Your gift will be clearly listed on your monthly bank statement.
This authorization will remain in effect until St. Mary’s
______________________________ _______________________ Date:__________
Authorized signature for account Printed Name
______________________________ __________________________ Date:__________
Joint signature for account Printed Name
Please retain a copy of this completed form for your records. Attach a voided check to the original document and return it to:
St. Mary’s Office of Ministry & Development – EFT, 20 Harrison Avenue, East Islip, NY 11730-2391
Queen of All Saints Church is a Roman Catholic Community of believers whose mission is to preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ through Word and Deed. Mandated by Christ to love and serve God and one another, we worship our God and address the needs of humanity during these challenging times. We embrace this mandate by standing firm in our faith that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior.
MOVING TO or FROM ST. MARY’S PARISH? Please assist us in keeping our records up-to-date by completing this form and returning it either in the collection basket or to the Rectory. Thank you!
___*New to St. Mary’s ~ Welcome! ___Change of Address ___Moving out of parish ___Phone
(*Please contact the Rectory to register at 581-4266, ext. 125)
Name: ___________________________
Address: _________________________
Phone: __________________________
